Friday, May 29, 2009
traveling solo, growing, learning and feeling lonely
It was time to go, my plan to do 6 weeks of language corse was done, and my date of next flight to next destination is aproaching quite fast.
I wanted to write something about Mendoza, but on my first day here I feel quite lonely and first time in 7 weeks, quite sad. Plus it was raining which aparently does not help either:)
One of the guys I know, who did the roud the world trip before, asked me some weeks ago, if I feel lonely on the road yet. But i did not... I had so much great moments in Buenos aires with new friends, with my 2 slovenian friends visiting me, with the school... I just enjoyed every moment of my time there and I was wandering when it will hit me. Because I was expecting that this trip will have some effect on me sooner or later.
And it did hit me. It hit me in the same way it hit me before on my trips. The trip is not really interesting if you don´t meet new people and get to know the city through people´s eyes.
And lately in my life, I realized, that people who you meet on your life path, and you share some of your deepest thoughts, came on the way with a purpose. I also think this goes both ways, two people who meet and share time, and fun and talks... usually both benefit from this new friendship. The exchange of interesting life stories gives both of the people something new to think about..
Something that makes you either think, learn, grow, new experiences.... new thinking... new ideas... and most of all.. great memories.
So, it happened to me again. Met really nice people in BA, and then when you move on to a new destination (or return home), then it hits you how great these new friends really are. And then the memories and thinking of good times makes your current day a misery.. specially if it is either back home, or even more in the new place. And on this road trip that I am doing... it will probably happen again later. I am today in Mendoza. city is quite emtpy (specially after Buenos Aires experience), the hostel is also empty... and it is raining. And I have this fucking lonely feeling that wants me go back to the first bus to Buenos Aires.. Well. I know from my experiences, this is just a temporary feeling. Besides now with new technologies like internet, facebook, sms... i am still connected to these friends and it feels good:)
I remember my early travels or language school trips. Back in early 90-ties... when e-mail was not yet introduced and mobile phones were not even close to being widely used.... every time on this trips I had to say goodbye to many nice people and I never knew if I will see them ever again in my life. Luckily for Facebook, or throgh really strange coinsidences, I am connected to most of the most important ones these days... and this is really fantastic.
I am posting a great video about Mendoza.... not mine... but fun enough
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g37BkhgnQRw
Glaciers
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Calle 13 - No hay nadie como tu
Calle 13 and their song ´No hay nadie como tu´
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RKkSBtF2Xcc
song about everything that is wrong with our world:)
Monday, May 18, 2009
estancia in Uruguay...

Uruguay, Montevideo

There is one city that you can visit in a day - Colonia de Sacramento. Little town, that means a nice éscape´for a busy Buenos Aires for a weekend day. There is nothing much to see excdept the old colonial part near the river. I was lucky to ran into a yearly oldtimer car exhibition when I was there. The views to the water are great, but as the water here is still a river (River Plata), it is still dirty brown... not really welcoming to jump and swim in it. The old town has nice little colonial houses, some good places to eat and drink.... and a light house...
2,5 hours bus ride away is Montevideo. Capital city of Uruguay is quite large, but of course, that comes from me... compared to our Ljubljana (300.000 inhabitants), Montevideo is 5 times bigger.... half of uruguayan population lives in the capital city, the rest are spread around the country. Uruguay is the second smallest country in Latin America. The history is also very short... less 200 years ago, Uruguay territory belonged to Argentina. And as in all history events with a twist, there was a war (between Argentina and Brazil) in early 1800, for territory, what else. People on the territory of current Uruguay took the chance in this boiling period and established their own country....
more accurate information available on Wikipedia:)
Anyway... my first impressions of Montevideo (1.5 mio inhabitants) was that is very empty... where did all the 1,5 million people go? Streets in the downtown are empty, and at night looks like pretty deserted town. I asked Eduardo, who lives there, how is it to live in Montevideo.... and the answer was... `tranquillo`.... very calm. Compared to Buenos Aires, it is very quiet. Montevideo copied almost everything from his big ´brother´across the river... the buses, the bus stops, ticket system, street names, shops, food... you can get medialunas (breakfast pastry), sandwiches, parillas (well... meat is again one of the most popular dishes here... grilled!!).
But they have also some things, that BA does not... the river turs out blue when it meets the ocean and actually makes a nice rambla to walk on.. and beaches get pretty full during summer monnths....
I read in one article that Montevideo is one of the best citites in Latin America to live in. Well.. for me, it is just tooooo calm. I need excitement, busy streets, lots of people and feeling to be alive. There are people of course - the big shopping mall was full to the last corner... but this is just everywhere in the world.
Maja
